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This vocabulary is a relatively new term, self-attribution, surely we also do not quite understand, explain a little more self-attribution are generally the performance of the attitude of a person in the face of failure time. Analysis Sexy Turquoise Fishnet Cheekee Teddy of the class of the reason for the failure. And that attributional style can know that our next course of action, we need to train the child to the correct self-attribution. Modern psychologists and educators unanimously appealed to parents to carefully analyze the child's attributional style, to help children use the correct attribution, and young children a positive self-attribution ". There are one such example. Two brothers, a surprisingly optimistic, and the other is very pessimistic. Their parents want their character to change. So which he was optimistic about the child locked in a room full of horse manure, pessimistic child locked in the full house of beautiful toys. For an hour, when they opened the pessimistic child's door and found him sitting in a corner, wiping nose again weeping and crying, very sad, that he was afraid of accidentally broke a toy, afraid to suffer the parents scold . Open full of horse manure the room, found that optimistic children are excited with a small shovel to dig with horse manure, and scattered to the door shovel clean. See their parents, optimistic child like found a miracle, cried: "Look here, there are so many horse manure, there will be in the vicinity of a beautiful colt, I want to give it to clean up a clean place to" this optimistic children later, U.S. President Ronald Reagan, from newsboy to Hollywood stars, and then the governor up onto the presidential throne.

Psychologists in the study above, a similar problem and found that the feelings and attitudes of the people have a stable, mostly they were trained to the habits of the attribution model. Attributed simply to failure and success is attributed to some reason. Attributed to the outside has been defeated when first looking for external factors, such as the environment is bad, bad luck, and to shirk their own and able to take responsibility; inward attributed to the performance suffered defeat to reflect on their wrongdoing, and bear should be responsibility. Attributed to the stabilizing factor that the factors leading to failure is immutable, is generally believed that their own ability is not enough; attributed to unstable factors that the factors leading to failure can be changed, is generally believed that their own efforts not enough. Attributed to uncontrollable factors can not be as unfavorable factors for failure, negative treatment; contrary to can or can directly or indirectly change the failure of unfavorable Ladybug & Bees factors, actively peace with. How to be considered the correct self-attribution, and how your baby to exercise? First, according to the above classification, the majority of parents are in favor of attribution self-attribution - attributed to unstable factors - uncontrollable factors attributed to these three categories, namely, those who take the initiative to take responsibility, the patient asked failure factors by efforts to changed. The process of doing things can make a difference. Finally, be able to enough people to control their own destiny.  

So a little child really selfish you, if it is true, then later learning and life can cause a variety of inconvenience. That is true, what false to speak of, the children will pretend to be selfish? At most, is I do not know the social depth, wantonly reveal the nature of nothing. So what caused the child's selfish. How should we as parents do to change this state.

Example: from the life of every child is a blank sheet of paper, and parents is to smear the brush of this white paper, good children's lives an example, are very important for every parent. Eager to help when parents strive to lead by example, take the initiative to make way to go Sexy Black Bikini out on the bus, difficult neighbors. Period of time, you will find children for others. From the parents spoil from unconditional meet: the baby has a lot of toys every day clamor to buy a new one to see other children's toys, but also could sleeve bolero top Bra Set not help but reach out to grab. Parents encountered such a situation, most of them choose to compromise to the child, a child outside crying, do not buy to lose face; two parents feel better living conditions, do not want to let the children affected by the slightest grievance. Do you not know that such thoughts, so that the child's desire to become a bottomless pit, never be filled. In the face of the child unreasonable demands, we must learn to refuse, instead of endlessly to meet. So when children make any demands, do not immediately meet him, but mop the time he set up some obstacles. Gradually, he will understand that not all requests will get adults to meet, learn to restrain their own desires. When he could restrain their own desires, the selfish behavior to stretch out his hand to grab the toy will be reduced. So to guide the baby to give you an example. 2-year-old Chihi is. One day, she was holding a teddy bear and her mother in the residential park to play, suddenly a child doll in the hands of her attention. Thus, apart from anything else up on the grab, the little girl where her hand severely pushed. Chihi been pushed to the ground crying like tears, mother Chihi wipe away the tears, said: "Chihi that children can also rob your teddy bear, you will be silent to you?" Hope hope after listening to and shook his head: "This is me, I will not give her" mother touch Chihi head, and softly said: "ah, that children must also tell you, but if you really want to play or Chihi curious to ask: "What?" mother cleared his throat Road: "You see, can you play exchange with the children's dolls with your teddy bear?" As a mother how how virtuous, the right way of education, if the child really grow to a certain point, a number of things, see more clearly, it would have to tell them about the selfish interest. Of their own choice, always avoiding disadvantages, the children, too, so it is easy to achieve. Of course, this independent children or less, we still have to guide the main.  

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