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The favor of the parents of the child affects the child growing up in a variety of habits and character to develop. Children Ren Laifeng this wrong, it seems not unrelated to education, but it is also derived from the plus line the child's attitude. Children concerned about the degree of change, a direct impact on children crazy busy, as long as we take a look at the following examples and analysis, it is not difficult to understand. Tom who just turned 4 years old, is both sensible and well-behaved little boy, usually like paintings, pinch clay figurine caught grasshoppers proudly show it to your parents also love to sing in front of their parents; father The mother praised him for a few words, he will be glad exultant. Usually regarded as a gentle, easygoing, obedient good boy at home. However, whenever the home to guests, Tom will be uncharacteristically. For example, in sister Mary's birthday party, when guests have to send flowers, candy, toys, birthday gift to Mary, he would deliberately shouting "stomach pain" really rolling on the floor playing ! Christmas one year, he even deliberately Lace Bikini smashed in front of all the relatives and friends of a valuable Chinese vase, angry father severely beat him to a meal. Grandmother Ting Yan Shang last month, he actually announced not to eat what he called "dirty things" fried steak, and finally spin the guests broke up.

Child psychologists believe that in fact this "Ren Laifeng" Unlike some children often see people for a long a bloody fool, chaotic booing, but some children on their own without the resistance of "concern", its subtext is: If you do not put me as one thing to children, I would spin even more fierce! you know, child care requirements by the adults concerned about not only their physical needs and security needs, it is an indispensable psychological needs and emotional needs. Under normal circumstances, they will take a self-performance in a positive way to the big people's attention, they are Sexy Turquoise Fishnet Cheekee Teddy Blue eager to big people to him as the recognition and praise, and to derive self-esteem and self-confidence. Once they find themselves is not concerned about (such as the original is always the family "center" Tom found sister, sister's birthday party became a "central figure" grandmother's Life Yanshang he did not sing "hero." ), they may be inferior or insignificant and other negative feelings, and then make some big people seem very "bizarre" behavior, such as pretended to be sick, refuse to eat or even destruction of goods. The reason they do, in fact, just want to use passive, covert methods to express their needs, again just issued a "signal" to the big people: I do not want to be left out - even though the adults may actually be, and there is no intentional snub him. The concern of children eager to be adults, in the final analysis is the desire to respect by the adults, and to confirm their existence. This desire are met, the child's personality, self-esteem and self-awareness is very important significance. Children in early childhood is limited by the mental level, this subtle psychological desire are often difficult to like other kinds of physiological desire (such as eating, drinking, sleeping, etc.) as unmistakably to the big people, so they turned to some nonsense "means. Ren Laifeng so the child depends on the parents of the child attention before and after the gap, can not blame the child suddenly trouble, blame before you are too spoiled, or after too cold, more than one result of this case, of course, some children expressed as Ren Laifeng, the majority of boys and girls are mostly manifested as crying, this is the most common in the kindergarten. Teacher to Gubuguolai so many children, but also mixed in the home, one is a treasure. So just in kindergarten to cry also normal. Big people, to advance understanding of the situation, and make the appropriate rectification. Children to reduce the psychological gap. Is undoubtedly very important.