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 Early childhood, children lack self-evaluation capacity. They can only come to know through someone else's language, facial expressions, movements, valuation of their own. Therefore, when the child success or setbacks, parents or teachers make a positive response or negative response, and will directly affect the child's personality and other psychological quality trends. Successful, can make children feel excited, and enhance self-confidence and independent entrepreneurial spirit. However, it may make a child complacent, arrogant and forget. Therefore, when the success of children in their daily lives, parents and teachers must first be given the proper evaluation, encourage and praise moderate. Young mind, a psychological cheap lingerie for sale characteristics, that is, their initial pursuit of successful motivation is often to please parents and teachers. If you get the praise and reward, they get an emotional meet, followed by the formation of a vague self-assessment, driving the children to try new things and efforts. Gradually, even without the positive feedback on the adult words and deeds of the children themselves to obtain the satisfaction of success and fulfillment will become the power of initiative to overcome the difficulties, and then into an independent and enterprising spirit. However, the truth across the step is a fallacy. If the success achieved by the children to give too much praise, too much praise, excessive incentives are likely to make the naive, simple child deformity satisfaction, resulting in blind proud, arrogant, lazy ahead. Secondly, should the children to achieve success on the basis of the timely submission of new demands and desires led him to produce to reach new goals, the pursuit of greater success in the motivation and the tireless efforts of practical action. Otherwise, the children lost their way forward, revel in the success of being complacent, complacent, and ultimately not conducive to the formation of a good personality traits.

Of course, young children, subject to limited physical development, cognitive abilities and life experiences, the frustration often encountered in the course of the children want to explore. At this time adult lack of patience, do not give the necessary sympathy and help, it will make the children's normal psychological development by the distorted and deformed, so that tends to affect the development of the child character, will and other non-intellectual factors. Therefore, when children encounter a setback, parents and teachers must first take an understanding attitude of sympathy and encouragement, motherhood to help children study and analysis of causes of frustration, to teach children to learn about the knowledge and remedy. Of course, such help is not acting on their behalf, but rather focuses on the induction of inspired enhance the toughness to overcome difficulties and hard mental and physical drill fresh. Here to remind is cheap lingerie set difficult to extricate themselves suffered a setback when the child is looked bewildered, do not be complaining, sarcasm, and beatings to punish. Fix, it will make the child hurt in strong curiosity, self-confidence and self-esteem. Over time, the child may form a kind of "inferiority" and "the feeling of inadequacy, no matter what just staring at their own weaknesses and shortcomings, and felt everywhere as well as others, can not see their advantages and strengths, it is difficult from the weak freed in the state. In this way, the child's psychological mechanisms will be out of balance, mood depression, nervousness, personality solid addiction. Second, we must pay attention to inspire children to rise from the setback, not afraid of failure, the bold exploration. Parents and teachers to speak of heroic stories, watching scientists to create and invent books, so that children understand that "Failure is the mother of success," the truth, to encourage children to foster perseverance. If the spoiled the children, limit the child's activities, so that they do not have the opportunity to exercise, it will form a dependence. Now, many parents, especially the one-child parents, spoiled the child, submissive, 'so that they are not at least living skills. A result, the children are accustomed to in their daily lives to rely on their families in learning the lack of strong intellectual curiosity and initiative, they run across difficulties and setbacks to feel aggrieved is suffering, trying to escape, so the children it is difficult to develop the socialist modernization need of qualified personnel.