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This vocabulary is a relatively new term, self-attribution, surely we also do not quite understand, explain a little more self-attribution are generally the performance of the attitude of a person in the face of failure time. Analysis Sexy Turquoise Fishnet Cheekee Teddy of the class of the reason for the failure. And that attributional style can know that our next course of action, we need to train the child to the correct self-attribution. Modern psychologists and educators unanimously appealed to parents to carefully analyze the child's attributional style, to help children use the correct attribution, and young children a positive self-attribution ". There are one such example. Two brothers, a surprisingly optimistic, and the other is very pessimistic. Their parents want their character to change. So which he was optimistic about the child locked in a room full of horse manure, pessimistic child locked in the full house of beautiful toys. For an hour, when they opened the pessimistic child's door and found him sitting in a corner, wiping nose again weeping and crying, very sad, that he was afraid of accidentally broke a toy, afraid to suffer the parents scold . Open full of horse manure the room, found that optimistic children are excited with a small shovel to dig with horse manure, and scattered to the door shovel clean. See their parents, optimistic child like found a miracle, cried: "Look here, there are so many horse manure, there will be in the vicinity of a beautiful colt, I want to give it to clean up a clean place to" this optimistic children later, U.S. President Ronald Reagan, from newsboy to Hollywood stars, and then the governor up onto the presidential throne.

Psychologists in the study above, a similar problem and found that the feelings and attitudes of the people have a stable, mostly they were trained to the habits of the attribution model. Attributed simply to failure and success is attributed to some reason. Attributed to the outside has been defeated when first looking for external factors, such as the environment is bad, bad luck, and to shirk their own and able to take responsibility; inward attributed to the performance suffered defeat to reflect on their wrongdoing, and bear should be responsibility. Attributed to the stabilizing factor that the factors leading to failure is immutable, is generally believed that their own ability is not enough; attributed to unstable factors that the factors leading to failure can be changed, is generally believed that their own efforts not enough. Attributed to uncontrollable factors can not be as unfavorable factors for failure, negative treatment; contrary to can or can directly or indirectly change the failure of unfavorable Ladybug & Bees factors, actively peace with. How to be considered the correct self-attribution, and how your baby to exercise? First, according to the above classification, the majority of parents are in favor of attribution self-attribution - attributed to unstable factors - uncontrollable factors attributed to these three categories, namely, those who take the initiative to take responsibility, the patient asked failure factors by efforts to changed. The process of doing things can make a difference. Finally, be able to enough people to control their own destiny.